Thursday, February 11, 2010

Guest Blogger

Hello Jennifer Haas blog followers. I feel the need to introduce myself to all of you for I am the individual assigned to update her blog as she progresses through surgery in the morning. I feel so “Hollywood”.
I am her husband Dan, the lucky man that has been married to Jenny for 13 years. The way she has dealt with being tested and diagnosed, scheduled and preparing for surgery has been truly amazing to watch. What’s also amazing to me is the lives that she has obviously touched throughout her life. As most of you know, she has never met someone who didn’t soon become her friend. She once thanked a police officer for a speeding ticket and most of the drive thru food clerks and check out lane baggers in Tipp City know her by name. Therefore, I should not be so surprised by the number of people who have reached out to us during this time, but I am. Prayer chains, meals, counseling, groceries, prayers, hugs, phone calls, cards, e-mails, and the list goes on. I cannot thank each of you enough for all that you have done. I wouldn’t know where or who to start thanking.
But I would like to thank one person publicly. THANK YOU to my wife for the last 13 years of helping to continue to raise me. I promise I’ll grow up some day. I wouldn’t be half of the person I am today without her. There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think to myself “I can’t imagine my life without her”. THANK YOU to the mother of my children for being such a great mommy. You have been a mom for 11 years, and never called in sick. You amaze me and inspire others. THANK YOU for everything.
You have always been there for everyone else, and now it’s now time for us to be here for you. Go into surgery in the morning knowing that everything will be fine. We’ll all be o.k. and so will you. When you wake up, we’ll be there, and whatever challenge presents, we’ll face it and get through it together. We all love you.

O.K., sorry to the rest of the blog “followers”, I went off script for a moment but thought it needed to be said. As you’ll discover, there will be an easy way to identify who is updating the blog. If the blog has an upbeat tone, Jen is your blogger. If it takes a more mono tone and gets boring or long at times, it’s me.

I don’t want to end my first blog so sappy, so I’ll share a funny story from earlier today. The surgeon’s office called to let us know the balance we’ll owe following the surgery. They then went on to tell us that if we paid it today, we could get a 10% discount. Who knew that surgeons run "today only brain surgery specials”? I would have done it, but I didn’t have my Kroger Plus card.

Until tomorrow..........

11 comments:

  1. Dan and Jenny,
    What a blessing you two are to so many people!It really makes one reflect on every precious momment that we have with our loved ones.
    You guys are in my prayers daily.
    With Many Blessings sweet children!
    Connie Werner
    (Stephany,Karen, Anthony, Kyle's and Christians Momma)

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  2. I have signed off as you can tell and even when I'm crying you can still make me laugh Daniel. I love you more than you'll ever know! Love, Jenny

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  3. I am laughing through tears myself. You two truly have something special. Jen I hardly know you and Dan I have never met you - but I feel like I have known you both for a lifetime! Stay strong and thank you for sharing this journey with us! God Bless!

    Kim W

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  4. You guys are adorable!! :) You are a wonderful example of love, support and faith. I look forward to updates on your recovery. I will be praying for your family today, tomorrow and always.

    ~Stacey

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  5. The day has finally arrived so you can begin your road to recovery. As always remember God is with you and He will take care of you. Lean on those around you and receive the love!Ha!

    You are totally covered in prayer!

    Lynn

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  6. Dan, that is so incredibly sweet!!!!! I'm sure Jen felt like she could fight any pain-in-the-butt tumor after reading that!! :)

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  7. I hate that I'm "anonymous" ... the above comment was from Jen Finley .... aka Coleman ... aka ole' girl ...

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  8. Dan, that was so sweet. If I didn't know for certain, I would bet you had some Stanley genes in you somewhere!! Y'all are in my prayers as always.
    Love,
    Aunt Laura, Uncle Darrell

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  9. Dan What a wonderful father and husband you are!!!! We feel privledged to be your neighbors and friends. From the moment we saw you guys we knew it was going to be a great thing. You know how we feel about you and Jenn and the boys. Keep smiling today as we knoww Jenn would. God Speed and know everyone is praying for you. Love, Janet and Randy.

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  10. Darn it, DJ...smiling & crying. God bless, Annette

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  11. Dan, hang in there. I know how hard this will be on you and your family. I spent most of my early days being concerned about how my family was dealing with the issues. Jen is going to be fine and we will be there every step of the way. Now we just take one step at a time. We will be over to see her as soon as it is right for her. Keep us informed. I know for me, it was easier after a few days to have visitors. Say the word and we will be there. Love Pat and Judy Coleman

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